Cry. Smile. You are human and you have feelings and emotions. Embrace them. This is what makes you uniquely human.
If someone is being condescending, rude, or ignoring you, it is because they are unhappy with their life and they want to bring you down with them. Don’t let them impose their own insecurities on you. Just let them be and pass you by.
Thank your family and friends that support you, before it is too late. Give them a long hug. Hold their hand. Look them in the eyes and lock in that eye contact. Verbally tell them how much you appreciate them. Say “I love you.” Show them you care.
Work hard. Get a part-time job. Take summer school classes. Read. Take lots of pictures. Drive for hours. Sing. Paint. Make sure to watch a movie in theaters. Go shopping. Go on a date. Try something new.
Find something that you love <3
This is not the end of my Summer 2015 – this was just the beginning. I am always learning and becoming better. Thanks again, Summer 2015.
Summer is my absolute favorite time of the year. Looking back at all of my memories, many of them fell in the summer time. This summer, in particular, was one of lessons – mistakes, reminders, and eye opening experiences (and lots of food!).
This is your break from college and school. You deserve to have fun. You deserve to go out with your friends. You deserve to dress up and put on makeup. You deserve to go to the beach and put your toes in the water. Go on a short trip or go on a long trip. Never apologize for having too much fun.
You deserve to eat some good food. Be extra active so you can eat that hot dog. Go hiking and then go get a cheesecake. Don’t count your calories. Just play your Wii Fit or run a mile…tomorrow (:
Life moves on, whether you’re ready or not. And it is too short. Summer is short. You are young for only so long. Keeping moving forward and don’t dwell. You will make mistakes. Accept them and grow.
Summer 2015 — thank you for teaching me what I needed to learn and know. I’m looking forward to more lessons in the near future before school starts! Come back tomorrow for more of these simple lessons…(:
Summer 2015 has been a roller coaster of events, emotions, and adventures – the highs and the lows, the ups and the downs. When I was starting to get discouraged and overwhelmed by the “hard stuff,” my best friend pointed out, “But that’s what makes life fun!” And if that is the case, then I have been having WAY TOO MUCH FUN this summer
Having way too much “fun” also means that I have so much to blog about now! And I cannot wait to share all of my stories with you! Now that I am officially done with summer school, I can focus on getting back into my groove of blogging here. This summer has truly been one of the most reflective ones that I have had yet and I learned so much about myself and life in general.
Here is the official kick off to my return to the College Tips Blog! I will leave this post with the final thought that pushed me through my toughest summer: “We have to realize that our lives could be gone in a moment. There are no guarantees that we will be here at this time next year. Learn to live each day to the fullest. Don’t complain. Don’t focus on what’s wrong. Be grateful for the opportunity to experience each day.” –Courtesy of Tumblr(Follow my new Tumblr at http://gloriahn.tumblr.com/)
I can confidently say this has been the worst and yet the best summer ever. Come back soon to read more (:
I heard a really deep quote today that reminded me of college:
“If you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing it is stupid.”
I interpreted this similarly to the saying: comparing apples to oranges. You cannot compare how well a fish climbs like a monkey. Likewise, in college you cannot compare yourself to other students.
A fish is very good at swimming, and a monkey is very good at climbing – two completely different animals. I am also individual and unique in my own way, and I am completely different from any other student. I am very good at dancing, and other students are very good at math. Do I feel discouraged when I do not get the grade I want in math? Yes, but I will not let this take over and make me feel bad about myself? Will I let math get in the way of my love for dance? No, maybe I was just not meant to do well in math. Like the swimming fish, I need to be proud of what I am good at and let that lead the way. I was meant and born to dance and not compute math problems. At the end of the day, just do what makes you happy; and if it does not make you happy, just let it be. Do not worry and let it waste your time by upsetting you. You matter and you are talented and skilled – maybe in a skill that you do not even know you have yet!
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College students think everything is interesting, and you will learn the power of shock value: My friend thought it would be cool to take a photo of a possum having babies. It was actually pretty disgusting. I called him out on it via text – honestly because I was scared he would send me another picture if I snapchatted him.
Snapchat will test your patience: It is really annoying when people set their photo to the full 10 seconds. Waiting 8 more seconds until the next snap loads will prepare you for those awful 3 hour lecture classes, where the clock just does not move!
It will make you realize very quickly which friends you need to hang out with more often – and the ones you want to avoid. Your new best friends will snapchat a ton of sports games, night dance clubs, concerts, bonfires, and frat parties (if you are that kind of person). But you won’t want to be with the ones that take snapchats of their friends throwing up in the toilet, because who knows? That could be you next on their 24 hour story…
The geeks will never send snaps and they have the lowest counts. These are also the guys that are taking 10 classes a semester, a.k.a. totally me. And the popular forever-stuck-in-high-school kiddos that have over hundreds of thousands of snaps? Well they basically don’t really do much of anything else other than take meaningless selfies all day. Just kidding! (I’m not kidding.)
What kind of snapchatter are you? What kind of college snapchatter do you think I am?
Now that spring semester is over, summer is really throwing off my groove. I don’t know what to do with my free time — the time I would be spending on studying, class, and homework. It feels really weird being alone at home all the time and not seeing anyone other than my family. But after this school year in particular, I have noticed that summer has made me incredibly lazy. This is what has been happening over the last couple of weeks since college has been out of session:
Exercising – I just eat and sit in front of a computer playing games and watching TV all day and I really don’t feel like moving around. This is probably why my pants aren’t fitting me and my sweats have become my new best friends.
Make-Up – if I’m not going out, then why do I even bother putting on make-up? Plus, if I do, I’m too lazy to take it of later in the day.
Cleaning – Do you think I’m going to want to do dishes and clean my room? NADA.
Cooking – I have been really getting pampered by all the food that magically appears in front of me, prepared by my one and only loving mother. While it has been magical, this has made me unappreciative and now I expect food from her instead of just cooking it myself.
Socializing – I can talk to my friends on my phone and my computer. From the comfort of my bed. Or couch. Enough said.
Sleep – I have no reason to get out off bed so I just keep sleeping. Last night, I slept about 9 hours, but the previous days, I have been sleeping for 14 hours straight.
Does anyone else have these problems too or is it just me? Leave your thoughts in the comment section below and help me get off my butt! At this rate, it’s going to become bigger than Nicki Minaj’s…
The Call: Last night, I got to be a part of my first proposal. A month or so ago, the soon-to-be-groom gave me a mysterious call in the middle of the day. He asked me to make sure to free up my schedule last night so that I could be a part of their engagement.
The Plan: The happy couple lives in Florida, and yesterday he surprised his girlfriend (my good friend who I met during a college internship) with a trip home to Southern California. He booked a reservation at an expensive fancy table service steak house restaurant. (Coincidentally enough, the same restaurant that she and I used to frequent often for breakfast during our internship.) After dinner, he excused himself to go to the restroom. Instead of returning to the table, the waiter gave her a note saying, “Follow the roses.” As she walked outside, her closest friends and family gave her a rose and hug as she made her way down the path, where her boyfriend was at the end waiting on one knee with the ring to pop the question.
The Ring: The ring was absolutely beautiful – a single carat princess cut diamond with little diamonds that went around the band. It was incredibly shiny and shimmering in the light.
I am sure this is the first of many more proposals to come! College is the time when many couples meet and get married. Have you been a part of any college proposals? Be sure to leave me a comment below!
The problem with staying up late studying (or watching TV like me) is that during the day, you might have a high chance of falling asleep in public places. Today was that day for me. I have been having early shifts these last couple of days and since I’m still recovering from my slight cold, my body has been in overdrive trying to heal itself. Luckily, I fell asleep in the computer lab/library so not a big deal but it’s still dangerous:
Reason #1: My iPhone could have been stolen. It was in plain sight for anything that could have reached over my cubicle and just taken it and there aren’t any cameras or anything so I would have never seen my phone again.
Reason #2: My wallet — or worse my whole BACKPACK AND PURSE — could have also been stolen. Then, my life would have pretty much been over.
Reason #3: Falling asleep behind the wheel. I was smart enough to be carpooling with my dad these past few days, and he has been a super trooper in helping me out while I’m sick. Not only can you hurt yourself, but you also have the potential to hurt others. Plus, you’d probably rack up your bills really fast this way or even total your car, leaving you carless.
Reason #4: It’s bad for your body. Your body was meant to get a good night’s rest comfortably in bed, not curled up on a couch in a library that is blasting its AC. You can really hurt your back or your neck this way…
And most importantly…Reason #5: It’s just plain EMBARRASSING. They always say you are most likely to meet the love of your life in college. Do you really want his first impression of you to be hunched over in front of your laptop next to a stack of textbooks with makeup rubbed all over your face? I didn’t think so! That is how you become mayor of Singletown!
Basically, DON’T DO IT! It’s not safe! Get your full 8 hours of sleep sleep. At night. In the comfort of your bed. Good night, everyone!
I have been working at my local library almost every other Saturday for the past couple of months. Today was one of those days. I love my job and I have been employed by the city since July 2008, which means I am coming up on 7 years this summer! Time flies by so quickly…
Here are a few reasons why working in a library is awesome for college students:
Technology – In my opinion, this is the best job ever. I monitor the computer lab and answer questions like where to check my e-mail, how to send a resume, what to do when the font is too big. During downtime, I work on library projects and even my own homework!
Circulation – When I worked in this department, I shelved books all day. While this may sound boring to you, it actually was far from boring. Sure, I would get a headache once in a while from all of the alphabetizing, but it got me to walk around the library and explore all of the amazing books that we have to offer. I know which books and authors in the Fiction, Non-Fiction, Mystery, Young Adult, and Travel sections are popular and get checked out most. I pretty much know where anything and everything is like the back of my hand. Plus, there are some really interesting books that I would have never known existed, like Time Management 101 or the Twilight Series in Spanish. This also means I get first pick on when they are returned into the bins for me to check out.
Writing/Research Experts – Since you know everyone at the library, they are always helpful and know the answers to whatever you need. When you have a research paper, they are experts at proofreading and helping you research.
Flexibility – Your managers and supervisors were all students once. In most cases, they are extremely supportive of your academics and will be more than happy to give you finals week off or additional days for homework and/or school events.
Perks – You will know about community events since most libraries are hubs for the city and the state. For example, since I am looped into the city’s network, I know when certain laws have been passed and are beginning to be implemented. You might have team building parties, free lunches, and other fun social activities. My library has a Young Women’s Professional Association with bimonthly meetings, where we just get food and network.
Closing Thoughts – For a college student, working at a school or local library is extremely beneficial to being connected to your community. This job definitely helps motivate me to do well in school too. My mom also worked at her library when she was in college to pay her way through. Ask your school about work-study at the library and hopefully they will be able to give you more information. Make sure to visit your local library too if you are not from the area!
Earlier this month, I wrote a post about my current money saving challenge (Click Here: http://ow.ly/N2CSz). I am now at the halfway point of this month and I am proud to say that I am still going strong. It has its bad and good days. For example, I went to school and ate most of the food I had packed, then went to work, and was starving and ate anything I could get my hands on basically. Some days, it is getting easier to curb my diet and get used to eating smaller portions. Plus, bringing food from home saves time on going to the cafeteria and having to wait in line and buy food. Since I carry it around with me, I can eat whenever I want to!
If you read my previous post on this topic, I shared how shocked I was that I had broken even – as in I was not able to save any money because all of the money I made was put right back into bills. The goal of this challenge was really to not only pay off my car loans but also to start saving up money to move out of my parents’ home and buy my own house. I had a talk with a close friend of mine, and he put a positive spin to it and said, “Well it’s a good thing you started doing this now. If you hadn’t started saving, you would be in debt.” I thought this was such a good positive way to look at my situation, instead of being pessimistic and scared of the future. Thank goodness I started this strict financial regime – I got smart just in time.