Post Midterm Blues?

Maybe you received midterm grade(s) a few weeks ago and you are struggling to raise your grade before the semester ends? Maybe you are doing alright in your classes but it is still important for you to raise your grade and you know you are capable of doing better?

Yes, it is the home stretch and the time to work extremely hard and study long hours. Hopefully you are not experiencing the kind of attitude that Calvin is here:

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It can be easy to say “then forget it” especially if you believe you can’t improve your grade. But you can always improve your grade – don’t give up!

  • Talk to your instructor/professor to find out exactly where you stand and what scores you need to get on the remainder of the exams and assignments to reach your goal
  • Talk with your academic adviser so he/she can help you make a plan of action and share other resources with you.
  • Go over your earlier test with your instructor to find out what you are doing wrong, are you over analyzing questions? Are you doing better on multiple choice questions or short answer questions? Are you studying the content you need to study?
  • Meet with an academic coach at your College Academic Success Center. You will pick up some tips and methods of study that will help you.
  • Study with your peers, especially the ones who are doing a little better in class.
  • Ask questions, review notes with peers and instructors.

Do not let pride stand in your way. Ask the questions, professors want to help students learn the material. By visiting them in their office for extra help, they know you are a good student who is really to trying to pass their class and will be very helpful,

Have a good week of classes and set aside more than plenty if time to study.






Introducing Academic Adviser


I have been an academic adviser at a large Division I college for many years and this is my very first blog entry.  It’s time for me to try something new and why not a blog where I can use my experience and share my knowledge with even more college students? I often tell my students to “step out of their box” and try something new or “take action”. So, I am trying to follow my own advice and the quote of this unknown author.

“The best way to succeed in life is to act on the advice we give to others.”  ~Author Unknown

Well, it’s that time of year again and you are planning for Spring semester and registering for classes AND I am very busy helping 300+ students register and giving career advice to many students changing their major. In fact, I have helped students navigate their way through college for over 12 years and can’t imagine doing anything else for a career.

Whatever your major, it’s very important to create a long term academic plan. Planning will help you balance your course load which will result in greater academic success and and save TIME & MONEY! You definitely don’t want any surprises especially when it comes time to graduate. Courses have prerequisites and some are offered Fall or Spring only. Know your curriculum and course offerings at your school to avoid delaying graduation. If your parents are helping you pay for college, your stock will go up in the “pride and joy” category.


Take A Break From College ALONE

Since I just celebrated my 23rd birthday (Oh my gosh, I cannot believe I am 23), I have been spending a lot of my time reflecting on my life. A co-worker mentioned that I am only two years away from a quarter of a century and it did NOT make me feel any better, HAHA. Lately, I have been going through my timeline on Facebook, looking at old photos, and I finally re-started journaling. One of the photos that particularly stood out to me was this one:


This picture is from November 2012 when I was still in my undergraduate college studies. I decided to fly away on a short weekend vacation across the country by myself. I woke up in a very nice hotel room that cost me about $140 per night. The bed was amazing and I walked out to grab breakfast and snapped this photo of my view. This is such a fond memory and I would kill to go back to that magical place again. Once I am done with my Master’s program, I really hope I have a good salary so I can go on vacations like this whenever I want to all the time. Right now, I am in grad school and don’t have any money but this is why we go to school right? In hopes of making money so that we can go on these extravagant adventures.

I hope my blog post inspires you to take breaks by yourself during the school year to re-discover yourself. It will motivate you to study better and work harder. Enjoy the photo! :)

Walmart Review

I recently wrote about my shopping experience at Walmart ( and wanted to follow up with a general review of my experiences as a college student, both here in my Southern California and as a Floridian local. Walmart is my go-to sometimes because it is one of the few places that is open 24/7. For this reason, I am usually here at the oddest hours of the day.

I have been visiting more frequently on and off for about 3 years now. There is always more than enough parking, even if it is all the way in the back of every Walmart I have visited! The customer service is what you would expect — satisfactory and could use improvement. I have never had a problem with the workers and many of them were reluctant but still helpful when I needed something.

What I found most frustrating though is that they are often low on stock or do not have exactly what you are looking for. There were no more of the vitamins that I normally purchase and they sold out of the shoe insoles and contact solution that I needed. Their selection on cereal (I wanted Special K!), eye drops, and other health products is very limited as well. The shelves can be very disorganized and products are sometimes opened. So make sure to triple check the item and think twice before purchasing.

Overall, Walmart is a necessary evil for all college students. It is your one-stop-shop for all of your academic and personal needs and at a price that you can’t deny, like candy! And LOTS OF IT!

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My Majors: Dance

Here is the second installment of the series, My Majors. You can read the first one on Music here:

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Temptations of the Dance Major: Music and dance are married in a wonderful partnership. To dance, you must have a good understanding of rhythm and the emotional cues of music. I love music and I personally have been dancing since I was about three or four years old and I have always loved it. It is a personal expression of emotion and movement that translates into something beautiful to the audience. I love learning new things and learning new dances is like an adrenaline rush. Mastering the choreography in a dance is one of the most rewarding feelings and you will want to keep performing it over and over again!

Why not? Very similar to music, just loving dance is not how you will make a living off of it. Many dance majors eat, breathe, sleep dance and dancers are extremely competitive. It is extremely time consuming and can be physically stressful on your body. You will need to push your body and I have found it extremely frustrating when your body does not listen to what you want it to do. You need to practice for hours and attend many rehearsals, not to mention the money you will have to pour into buying dance attire and especially shoes. From what I have noticed from my dancer friends, it will be very hard to juggle a job and be a dancer due to schedule conflicts.

My Conclusions of the Dance Major: All in all, I absolutely adore dancing and if I could make tons of money living off of dancing for the rest of my life, then I would do it. But right now, I am happy dancing whenever I can and as a hobby.


The My Majors Series is an overview of gloriosity’s “coulda, shoulda, woulda” majors that at some point she put thought into pursuing (…she wanted to learn everything…). Based on her personal experience, the guides are meant to provide subjective insight into the many possibilities that college offers.

You Don’t Know about Me, I’m 23

This year is my Golden Year, since I was born on the 23rd and I am finally 23! To continue on with my adaptation of Taylor Swift’s song from yesterday, here is how I hope this next year will project! Because let’s be real, everything is better when it is T-swizzled!

  • Here’s to all of the future nights
  • Including the sleepless nights because of homework
  • All 365 of them
  • Hope they will be filled with new empty and crowded places
  • Like expensive dinners, fancy parties, and Walmart midnight shoppingIMG_0615
  • Surrounded by too many cool friends to count
  • We can hang and chill or end up ditching the place
  • And go somewhere magical and end up dreaming
  • Like at the Happiest Place on Earth
  • Instead of sleeping
  • I hope I’m even happier than I am now
  • With the freedom to do anything and everything I want
  • I won’t be confused and lonely forever so I will take advantage of it this year
  • I promise not to be miserable at any point in time
  • Even if this is the year that I go through a heartbreak
  • I don’t know about you
  • But 22 was so last year
  • Everything is going to be even better
  • I believe in me
  • Because now I’m 23!

Feeling 22

Today is my last day as a 22 year old. It is strange feeling because I loved being 22, probably because of Taylor Swift’s song. If you have managed to avoid hearing it for this long, I would like to present to you her song:

And now I’m happy to share my lyrical rendition of it based on how I felt feeling 22 this past year!

  • It is the perfect night to reminisce dressed down in my sweats in my bed
  • Making fun of the stupid boys from this past year
  • And it is the perfect night for breakfast burritos past midnight
  • Remember the Denny’s pancakes and Alehouse with the best of friends


  • Those amazing memories, falling in love with them all over again
  • Online classes, PowerPoint Presentations, pulling all-nighters to write papers
  • Graduation parties, food adventures, moving out of the state
  • I was happy, content, confused, and lonely all at the same time
  • It was more magical than miserable to be honest
  • Tonight, I am forgetting all of those corny clichés
  • Because I guess the good and even the bad is all part of being 22
  • So I don’t know about you
  • But this is how I am feeling 22
  • Everything will be alright
  • So every night I will just keep dancing like I’m 22

Goals for my 23rd Year

As for mentioned yesterday, here is what I hope to accomplish this next year during my golden year – my 23rd birthday! I have really big goals for myself and since it is my golden year, I have nothing but high expectations for myself!

  1. Graduate with my 3rd Associate’s degree.
  2. Start looking to earn my 4th Associate’s degree.
  3. Continue on with my graduate Master’s program.
  4. Win another pageant and another crown!
  5. Keep a steady journal and write as much as possible.
  6. Start painting my nails more often with fun designs.
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  8. Share photos of my done nails on social media.
  9. Clean and organize my room, calendar, school, work, and life.
  10. Dance more, at work by taking a class or joining a team.
  11. Not get into any car accidents.
  12. Work out at my new school gym and try to get at least a flat stomach (if not a six-pack).
  13. Donate/sell my clothes and start paying attention to how I dress.
  14. Do more community service and volunteer.
  15. Complete another internship and gain more experience.
  16. Learn more foreign languages, especially Mandarin, Japanese, French, and Tagalog.
  17. Take new headshot photos.

My 22nd Year’s Accomplishments

If you have not noticed it yet, I love making lists. Since it is my birthday week, I wanted to make two lists: one on what I accomplished while I was 22 and the other what I want to accomplish while I am 23!

Thanks to capturing memories and recording them on Instagram, here are the things that I was able to accomplish while I was 22!

  1. I finally made an Instagram!
  2. I also started an account on Snapchat!
  3. I visited an exclusive rich club for lunch for the first and last time. My bill was over $100!
  4. I took out my first loan ever…
  5. To buy my first brand new car!
  6. I finally got my driver’s license.
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  8. I completed a paid prestigious college program after I graduated from college…
  9. That opened up the opportunity to be an intern at the Forbes 100 Company!
  10. I moved out of state to the other side of the country for this internship.
  11. I was part of a marketing photo-shoot!
  12. I made over 200 origami stars in 4 days!
  13. I placed second runner-up at my first real pageant!
  14. I auditioned and will now be a teacher and a dancer!
  15. Most importantly, I grew a ton this year and learned so much this past year and I can’t wait for the next!

Learning to Say No

One of my hardest challenges in college was learning how to say no. A security hiring manager that I met with recently shared her opinion on this matter with me. She told me that college teaches how to get opportunities. What it does not teach you is how to choose which career or opportunity to take. In college, you may find many classes that you want to take. For me, they revolved around the arts, like dance, painting, and music. Or you may want to join a sorority/fraternity, club, or a Honors Society. You may also be offered internship or part-time jobs.

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For some of my friends, finding these types of opportunities was difficult. For me, I could not get enough. It comes with my personality of being a hustler and going out and always looking for more to do. But at some point you will have to evaluate what is on your plate and be able to prioritize. I am still having trouble with this now but the more I do it, the easier it is for me to see what I am and am not willing to do. As you finish up the rest of this school semester/quarter, I challenge you to get out and find those chances, (quoting Ms. Frizzle from The Magic School Bus) make mistakes, and get messy!