How to Talk & Flirt With College Girls

Tips for college guys on how to talk and flirt with college girls

This how to talk and flirt with girls section is for all the college guys out there who need help talking and flirting with girls. There are a few things you must force yourself to do in order to get girls to like you. Note: this section assumes you already know how to be a gentleman.

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Tips on how to talk to college Girls

Be Confident

Girls are natually attracted to confidence. College guys need to learn how to be confident, but not cocky. It's all about how you handle the situation, try to let her know you are confident without bragging or taking about yourself. Most of the college guys out there are either wimps when it comes to girls or they are overly confident cocky bastards. If you can be confident and she knows you are in control of the conversation, she will become more interested in you.

Smile

Always look like you are having a good time, even if you are not. If you naturally smile and laugh with other people it makes you look so much better.

Don't tell her your life story

College girls have enough stress in their lives they don't want to be overwhelmed with information and know about your problems and such. Tell her as little as possible about you, if she wants to know she will ask. Even if girls say they want to know everything about you, don't tell them, give them small bits and pieces. Once they find out everything about you, you become less interesting. If she keeps pressing you for more information, just smile and respond (in a confident tone) with prases like "well if you stick around long enough, maybe someday you will find out".

Be active, stay busy, be unavailable

The more girls think about you, the better. Busy guys don't have a lot of time to hang around because they are accomplishing things, most girls are attracted to this. Get involved, and fill up that calendar of yours, she may complain she never gets to see you, but deep down she will understand. She will be thinking about you when you are not together, if you already caught her interest. If you are not busy, pretend you are, girls loose interest in (and take advantage of) a guy quickly if he is always around and available.

Be playful and flirty

Dont give a give a college girl a direct answer, try to be as vague as possible and playful. If she is interested in you she will ask more questions and you can give her just enough information to keep her guessing.

Make her laugh

Everyone has a different sense of humor, you want to try to figure out what her sense of humor is like. Getting a girl to laugh is a one way to show she is at least a little bit interested in you. If she is laughing and touching you, (like on the arm) that is a good sign she is liking you.

Don't touch her

You must fight the urge to touch a college girl. If you don't touch her but you are doing everything else right, she is just going to want you even more. Plus it's much more respectful not to touch girls you have just met. Basically let her touch you, but don't return the favor.

Try not to be alone

Always try to be with a buddy or friend that is a girl (even better) in case you spot a girl you want to talk to. Walking with friends shows that people like to spend time with you, and that is good especially if other girls are with you.

Get her number!

Talking to college girls is pointless unless you get their number so you can resume the conversation at a later time. If you like the girl ask for her number because you never know when you will see her again.

Keep phone conversations short

If you get a college girl's number and you call her (or she calls you), only talk to her long enough to set up a time when you can get together. Do NOT just talk about random stuff, tell her you gotta go and end the conversation short. Its not worth your time and effort talking on the phone so only use it to meet up or set up a date.

Be Able to Cut Your Losses

If a college girl does not seem interested in you (she is not making eye contact, her body is turned away from you...), tell her it was nice to meet her and move on. Don't burn bridges and don't take it personally, not all girls like the same types of guys. Move on because there are always more girls out there looking to talk to a guy just like you.

How to Talk to a girl walking on campus

Walking around campus is a great place to meet college girls. If you see a girl that you want to talk to, don't just stare at her. Look in her eyes and when she looks at you smile. If she smiles back, stop and say hi and ask her what her name is. Don't tell her your name unless she asks because a girl who is interested will ask for your name. If she asks for your name get her for her phone number, and then tell her it was nice meeting her, you gotta go to class.

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