College is a major transition from high school, but also a fresh new start. Freshman college students should follow basic guidelines to be popular or well known at college. The first year is very important because it will determine what type of student you will be. As college students build relationships with other college students and professors, they will become more well known on campus. Becoming well know is only half the battle, the other half is leaving others with a positive impression after meeting you.
College lasts for a long time, so be sure to be friendly to everyone you meet because you never know when you will meet that person again. Try to be polite and social to everyone you meet, even if you have never socialized with that type of person in high school. People are naturally attracted to others who smile a lot and are postive, so no matter how down you get still try to smile at others an say hello. Never talk negatively about others, even behind their backs. Listen to what people have to say, and try to find something about them that you find truly interesting.
Joining organizations is a great way to meet people and develop relationships. Joining groups and organizations you are truly interested in will allow you to meet other college students with similar interests.
College is a time when it becomes more difficult to stay active and fit. College students should make exercise and healthy eating a regular part of their schedule. Attending the college gym or running on campus is another way to meet new people, and it will make students look and feel great.
Going to parties at college is a great way to meet others. Parties can range from small get-togethers for a club or organization on campus to wild and crazy fraternity parties. Parties are a great way to see other college students in a relaxed atmosphere, where they are more open to social interaction.
I know it seems studying would not help a college student become popular, but you may be surprised. Many students form study groups to make studying easer. Getting good grades also ensures a student will be able to attend college the next year. Its impossible to become popular if you drop out, so be sure to get good grades and meet as many people as possible.
In order to become a popular student, a student must act like a popular student. Becoming friends with other popular students is a great way to find out the best way to become popular. You may notice it may be difficult to catch up with a popular student, because most are extremely busy and heavily involved in school activities, events, and organizations, but the effort is well worth it. A popular student will introduce you to people you have never met, and (sometimes important people). Notice how a popular student interacts with other people.
Dale Carnegie has written some of the top books on interacting with people. His writings teach you the best approach to dealing with people. By learning and practicing his techniques, students will be able to become leaders, help motivate others, and become well liked among peers.
Dale Carnegie's book How to Win Friends & Influence People is a MUST READ and is HIGHLY RECOMMENDED by CollegeTips.com! His book can help you get a job, land an internship, or a get a desired position in a club or organization, learn how to deal with difficult people, learn how to win an argument, and tips and tricks you can use to make people genuinely like you.
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