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Why is it that even college girls go for the guys who are...frankly, assholes?
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I have heard this question many times before... I think from the surface it looks like girls only go for those types of guys, but its only a coincidence that the ones you notice are "pushy @$$holes".
I think it's the fact that all @$$holes have (or seem to have) what many nice guys do not:
Confidence. Guys who treat girls like $hit come across to girls as having confidence and don't give girls everything they want.
The key here is, they are more of a challenge for a girl compared to a nice guy who gives them everything they want. Plus, nice guys tell them everything about themselves (no mystery left), are usually always around (available), and girls know this so they can hang out with a nice guy anytime they want. The pushy @$$hole hardly ever gives her the time of day, and when he does she is excited to spend time with him. The pushy guy makes her work for it, and she is not used to that.
Eventually, as girls mature most tend to figure this out and go for nice guys with confidence, but remember confidence is the key! Females are naturally attracted to confidence (whether they admit it or not).
You don't have to be a pushy @$$hole, just do things that keep her attention: get involved and stay busy...(so you are not always around), don't talk on the phone (that's what her girlfriends are for), don't always agree with her, talk/flirt with other girls... all of those things scream confidence.