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Originally Posted by lizzy anne  I know this is sort of an all guy conversation but if you want a girls view...
Confidence IS the key. When I'm meeting a guy for the first time, if i feel like I'm having to lead the conversation then mostlikely I won't talk to that guy again, even if he is extremely attractive and I've wanted to talk to him for a long time.
Thats why we tend to be attracted to the "pushy @$$holes". Those guys don't rely on the girl to carry on the conversation and they aren't afraid to ask for your phone number. Personally, if you don't ask for my number, even if I really want to give it to you I won't. I automatically assume you aren't interested in me and I do'nt want to seem desprate or slutty by openly offering it to you. You don't have to be pushy and cocky. You just need to control the situation and at least seem somewhat comfortable even if inside your screeming help! lol
Girls aren't monsters. Most of us are caring and understanding (thats one of the things yall like so much about us). We just like guys to be in control. If a girl can get whatever she wants whenever she wants it then SHE is in control of the relationship. And honestly we don't really want that.. but if you think we're gonna tell you to stop giving us everything on command then you are crazy! Girls don't want the stress and pressure of trying to hold the realtionship together. We are already worried about everything else.. When the GUY is in control then we feel safe and protected. Which leads to us being comfortable around you and loving you for taking care of us... which could lead to you getting the sex you want...
Anyways.. I hope yall aren't too mad that I broke into your conversation. I just wanted to give a girls advice on the whole thing. Hope it helps!  |
Wow lizzy anne,
Thank you for sharing a girl's opinion and helping the guys in this section of the forum.
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