Can clothes get you laid?

[collegeguy2115]

Just wondering what all you all think about the best way to dress to get a college girl's attention (and later on get laid) in college.

In my opinion, the clothes don't matter as much as long as they are clean, they match and they are not wrinkled.

[Writer-G]

Hmm, I'm not really the type of guy that pays attention to this stuff. But, I'd guess that as long as a guy is (like you said) dressed to impress, meaning his clothes are clean, and they match. I'm not too sure about the wrinkles. Like bad grades on tests you studied for, it happens. Gotta say, it's not really what you wear but how your personality is. It really says a lot more than what you're wearing. Therefore, more important. Just my 2-cents. =)

[Chris Phillips]

Writer-G: I agree 100%.

You could wear the nicest clothes in the world, but if you have a horrible personality no one is going to want to talk to you.

Dressing nice does help your chances of a first impression, but after that its all up to your personality. Your clothes don't always have to be perfectly ironed, just try to look nice and smile a lot, that always works for me.

[Writer-G]

Chris: I like your attitude.

I'm glad you agreed with me. That happens a lot with other people, for some reason. But, I'd like to add something. More of a question really.

Why is it that even college girls go for the guys who are...frankly, assholes? Their clothes and overall look are normal enough. Maybe even kind of got the "lazy look" goin'. But yeah, I still would think a good, cool, personality goes a long way. I'm just not sure why guys with horrible, pushy personalities get the girls. Like me, I guess I'm one of those nice guy, best friend types. It's really tough to get a girl, with my personality.

[Chris Phillips]

Writer G:

Why is it that even college girls go for the guys who are...frankly, assholes?

I have heard this question many times before... I think from the surface it looks like girls only go for those types of guys, but its only a coincidence that the ones you notice are "pushy @$$holes".

I think it's the fact that all @$$holes have (or seem to have) what many nice guys do not: Confidence. Guys who treat girls like $hit come across to girls as having confidence and don't give girls everything they want.

The key here is, they are more of a challenge for a girl compared to a nice guy who gives them everything they want. Plus, nice guys tell them everything about themselves (no mystery left), are usually always around (available), and girls know this so they can hang out with a nice guy anytime they want. The pushy @$$hole hardly ever gives her the time of day, and when he does she is excited to spend time with him. The pushy guy makes her work for it, and she is not used to that.

Eventually, as girls mature most tend to figure this out and go for nice guys with confidence, but remember confidence is the key! Females are naturally attracted to confidence (whether they admit it or not).

You don't have to be a pushy @$$hole, just do things that keep her attention: get involved and stay busy...(so you are not always around), don't talk on the phone (that's what her girlfriends are for), don't always agree with her, talk/flirt with other girls... all of those things scream confidence.