Try to get to know a lot of the brothers before rush even begins, try to hang out with the brothers whenever they invite you. Try to be genuinely happy to be there, try to meet and be friendly with every brother you meet. If you are at a fraternity house, and you run into someone ask if they are a brother and introduce yourself. If they aren’t friendly don’t take it personal just keep your head up and keep trying.
Ask the brothers if they would mind you stopping buy with some girls from the dorms (they love this). If you know some fraternity guys, tell them to have some beer ready because you are going to bring some girls by the house. Tell the college girls you know (probably from the dorms, but not the ones you like the most) that you are going to hang out at the frat house and invite them along. This is usually a win win situation, bringing girls to a frat house is a sure fire way to get them to like you, especially if there is not a party already going on. Just make sure of the caliber of women you bring, the hotter the better. You don’t want to show up with some sub-par women if you are trying to make a good impression.
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